Abortion, Israeli-Palestinian Conflict Brings Out the Worst in Commentators

Just about every hot-button issue has supporters and detractors who must act with the utmost professionalism to keep their credibility while presenting their arguments for their cause. But there are two subjects that I’ve seen in the past 20 or so years that seem to be immune to this, and what we’re left with is watching ‘respected’ people resort to illogical arguments and name-calling, and they are still applauded by a brainwashed public for their efforts.

No matter what happens in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, whether it is a blockade, another Gaza invasion, or a fence, the debate seems to always boil down to the same question. Does Israel have the right to exist? If the answer is no, the discussion is essentially over. There will be no agreement. However, answering no won’t keep the dialogue going, and no one wants to cave in and declare defeat, right? Oftentimes the reaction to this question is challenged as being unfair, or dodged completely, because few from the opposition wants to say yes and declare Israel’s legitimacy. This is where the debate often turns silly. For example, the controversy with the Turkish ‘relief’ ship and the deaths that followed led to renewed calls for an end to Israel’s Gaza blockade. Highly educated and respected people made this argument. The problem here is the very logic behind their argument is so backward that it should instantly destroy any credibility they ever had (yet they’re applauded by an equally delusional audience). They’re basically saying that Israel should unilaterally stop their security measures (perhaps ‘security’ is the debated word, here)… because… because… the people of Gaza deserve food, medicine, building materials, and weapons to attack Israel. I’m not quite clear on the position of those who wish to debate these points whether it’s okay that rockets and bombs are brought into Gaza and given to Hamas so they can attack Israelis. Not acknowledging these key points would earn a demerit in a Debate 101 course.

At the same time, when Palestinians complain that another hilltop in the West Bank is getting a new Israeli settlement, defenders of such actions are saying that Palestine has no right to exist. I’ll even buy the land-grab-to-later-trade-for-peace strategy, but that’s not really why it’s happening. And this is when the far-right Israelis put their foot in their mouths.

If you thought the Israeli-Palestinian conflict debate spawns a lot of relatively respected pundits to get away with ridiculous arguments, the abortion debate is Ground Zero for idiots to voice their opinions, from both sides of the spectrum. Even worse, people are so close-minded on this topic that they applaud the most immature and nonsensical of commentators.

Let’s start with the name-calling. First, the terms ‘pro-choice’ and ‘pro-life’ are political rhetoric used to paint a relatively positive name of the cause. In fact, ‘pro-pro’ could work with other debates, as well, though there likely aren’t other any topics in such desperate need of such labels to mask their true name. The word ‘choice’ is not synonymous with abortion rights and if anyone thinks it is, that just shows how embedded into their heads they made it. ‘Choice’ should refer to all real choices (but for the sake of debate, all controversial choices involving your body or life). I have the CHOICE to have an abortion, to do drugs, to commit suicide, to drink while pregnant (my body my choice). If you want to call yourself ‘pro-choice’ and really mean it, you pretty much need to believe in all of those causes. Otherwise, you hijacked the word. The same goes for ‘pro-life.’ Anyone who calls themselves ‘pro-life’ but is against abortion and for the death penalty has hijacked the word ‘life’ for their convenience. So, the proper terms for this debate are ‘abortion rights advocates’ and ‘antiaborion advocates.’ Not as pretty as pro-life and pro-choice. But at least they’re accurate labels. And anyone who uses the term ‘anti-choice’ to refer to an antiabortion advocate should automatically lose all credibility in the eyes of anyone with any common sense and isn’t blinded by the rhetoric that has ingrained itself into way too many heads these days. It’s as ignorant as someone saying ‘anti-life,’ a term that gets far fewer Google results than the just as ridiculous and inaccurate ‘anti-choice.’

Enough with the semantics. Name calling in this debate, which I’ve described above, has become an accepted part of our culture, even to the point that ‘unbiased’ journalists have been caught using the terms in news articles (I once saw a Newsweek author write ‘anti-choice protesters’ to describe a scene in a news story, which is a newsroom no-no). Even if either side was known as the accurate ‘abortion rights advocate’ and ‘antiabortion advocate,’ this debate is far from civil, and even bumper stickers scream ignorance. Anyone who believes they are being clever when they spout the phrase “if you’re against abortion then don’t have one” obviously has no understanding of the antiabortion movement. It would be like saying ‘if you’re against whaling, then don’t kill a whale,’ or ‘if you’re against murder, then don’t kill anyone.’ I think you get the point. Another oldie but goodie in the files of abortion rights advocates is to say that if abortion were outlawed, then it would lead to back-alley, aka ‘unsafe’ abortions. What they fail to acknowledge is that the antiabortion folks are against that, too. They’re not trying to outlaw abortion to drive more women to use coathangers. Sure, that would be an unfortunate side effect to a repeal of Roe vs. Wade but in no way would ever hinder their determination to outlaw it. It’s similar to painful, bloody suicides happening due to the illegality of legalized doctor-assisted suicide. Where are the anti-razorblade/noose/pill signs and marches around the Capitol for that?

There is virtually no angle of the abortion debate that hasn’t been argued a million times over, though the tactics in which the anti-abortion advocates use to fight legalized abortion have changed. Lobbying to make abortion illegal is one thing, but taking more immediate actions to reduce abortions often rubs the opposition the wrong way. That’s when the abortion rights advocates go on the defensive, name call, scream ‘unfair,’ or collectively lump all anti-abortion advocates together when one person murders a doctor or bombs a clinic. These are expected responses in defense of their cause, but again, the name-calling and eye-poking are too often an accepted and respected debate tactic.

The abortion debate also has a grab bag of ‘gotcha’ questions that each side asks the other, and the other one often dodges. “Should abortion be illegal even when the woman’s life is at stake?” “Should abortion be illegal in the case of rape?” (you’ll still hear some yes answers for that since ‘murder is murder.’) “If the baby can survive outside the womb then why should it be okay to abort?” (the late-term abortion debate). My favorite that no one can answer: “If abortion is okay, then why is Fetal Alcohol Syndrome not okay?” These are all questions that should make either side think about the consistency in their views, but too many people are too close-minded to even consider that there may be a hole in their argument. And that is why there will never be a consensus in the abortion debate.

No matter how passionate you are about either of these issues, and no matter which side you are on, don’t be drawn into what has become accepted debate tactics when they’re nothing more than immature arguments that wouldn’t hold up in less controversial issues.

Unintentionally Creating a Forum for Racists

So for Father’s Day this year, I republished an article I had written last year called “Top Ten Athletes With Illegitimate Kids.” Like with everything I’ve ever written, I wrote this article because I thought it was funny.

Yes, I missed Antonio Cromartie, and I’ll add him in the future (that is unless Larry Johnson has any more kids.)

Anyway, this article got poplar on Digg and got more than 10k 17k page views (pat myself on the back), but then I read the comments and realized what I unintentionally did. Because of the anonymity on Digg, people can say virtually what they want. In this case, some started making racists statements, and those statements got the ‘thumbs up’ from others.

While it’s true I didn’t include any white athletes on the list, it was only because I limited the number to ten, and I was basing it off of the number of kids, particularly by multiple women. Perhaps if I made it a Top 15 or Top 20 list, Scott Skiles would be on there, and maybe some others. Race had absolutely nothing to do with who made the list. The fact that they are all black is at the very best a coincidence, the very worst an awful stereotype. But I promise you, the very moment a white athlete knocks up a bunch of women, he’ll get a spot.

So, with this article not only did I give a forum to racist idiots, but I also got complaints about there not being any white guys on the list. Ugh.

Could Manute Bol Have Prevented 9/11?

It’s hard to imagine now, but there was a time when the United States did not take Islamic fundamentalism as seriously as it does today.

Manute Bol, who died Saturday at 47, was a 7’7 shot-blocking phenom in the NBA. In 1989, hell broke loose in Sudan as Omar al-Bashir took over in a military coup. Military transgressions led to the death of many Christians in the tribal south. Bol returned to his country, outraged at what was transpiring. This was around the time when the Sudanese government granted a haven to Osama bin Laden, who had been expelled from Saudi Arabia. Bin Laden helped the Sudanese government with its matters, and built up a little club known as al Qaeda.

Bol says he had warned the State Department about the threat in Sudan, but says he was ignored. He also said that he had warned the Clintons about Osama bin Laden. During the last election, he answered without hesitation that he wanted McCain to be president. Why? Because, apparently, Clinton and the Democrats had dropped the ball when Bol was warning them about this trouble in Sudan.

To the United States’ credit, it did list Sudan as a state sponsor of terrorism in the 90s, and barred U.S. firms from doing business there. Sure, in 1998 the U.S. fired a few cruise missiles at Sudan and Afghanistan, but what good did that really do?

Even the Sudanese government saw Bol as a threat, and had lured him back to the country to take part in peace negotiations. When he arrived, they seized his travel documents and he was a virtual prisoner in his own country while suffering health issues. He only escaped back to the United States when the government didn’t want to make an international scene in front of reporters at the airport.

So here’s the question. If the U.S. State Department, the Pentagon, and the Clintons listened to Bol, and taken the absolute necessary action, would the Sept. 11, 2001 attacks have been prevented?

There is no shortage of blame going around for what happened Sept. 11. But one thing is for certain. Had the United States understood the threats and intervened in earlier conflicts, particularly in Sudan in the early 90s, things could have turned out differently. And who knows? Perhaps Bol would have been that person who convinced these U.S. officials of the threat.

Remembering Manute Bol

Anyone who grew up as a Washington Bullets fan in the 1980s has very few fond memories. The team was a disgrace, and to a large degree, can still be considered a disgrace. But there was one player in particular who stood out, and that was Sudanese shot-blocking specialist Manute Bol. I’m fairly certain he’s the only player in the NBA to have killed a lion with a spear.

Manute was different not just because he was so tall, but because he was so awkward. People goofed on him. So he had to learn to talk trash back. He made a fool of himself on many occasions. He once lost teeth the first time he dunked. He fought Refrigerator Perry in celebrity boxing. As a publicity stunt, he joined an ice hockey team and was also a horse jockey. He was sometimes in the news for odd reasons, such as fighting with his wife, or being stuck at an airport. Even when I met him, the conversation was awkward, and I felt as if I had to speak to him as if he were a child.

Despite all that, he was a remarkable humanitarian who helped the people of Sudan, and spent his fortune on it. My family had a life-sized poster of him in our garage, and when we were kids we measured ourselves on it.

Just like with Gary Coleman, Manute wasn’t in good shape when I met him in early 2009. We had to help him out of his chair for the photo. When I asked him Gunaxin’s Six Questions, he managed to make us laugh when he said that “Rambo” was his favorite movie.

The world lost a great person today. Rest in peace, Manute.

Happy 50th Psycho!

When I was a kid my parents took me to Universal Studios in Florida. It had an Alfred Hitchcock exhibit. I fell in love. For a few years Nick at Night showed Alfred Hitchcock Presents reruns, and I watched it all the time.

Today marks the 50th year since Psycho was released. It’s not my favorite Hitchcock film, but it’s a close third behind North by Northwest and Vertigo.

However, from a pure nostalgia standpoint, it’s my favorite. When I was a kid I had a shirt that said Psycho. I bought a Bates Motel washcloth and beach towel. I visited Universal Studios in Hollywood and saw the House (which was right next to the set of How the Grinch Stole Christmas).

The one thing about Psycho I regret is that like many people, I knew the twist before I saw the movie. But it hasn’t stopped me from watching whenever it’s on!